Who am I? If that isn't a loaded question, I don't know what is. There are so many ways I could go about answering the question of "who am I?" and so many points of view I could take. But I am going to "know my audience" in this situation and answer it according to who I am writing to at this point (and I may not be writing to every reader today, so even though you are reading this, you may not be my intended audience). I'm getting married one month from tomorrow. I am so excited! The story is a beautiful (beauty from ashes) and magical love story and I am so grateful. But in the beauty and the magic are two people coming together blending two families and two sets of friendships and two separate lives and in that blending, each person is a stranger in the lives of so many. I am a virtual stranger to Marc's kids and family and friends. I've had the opportunity to meet most of these people, but they don't know me. I'm not writing t