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Yesterday & Today


Yesterday I got to be the parent who stayed at the mountain until Hays was finished with practice at 4:00. Usually I take the tired ones home and Andy stays with the fun ones. But yesterday, I stayed with Dax and he was VERY disappointed. He had to wait on me and do easy runs and rest a lot. He put his vote in for Daddy to be the late person from today forward. The picture is a picture of him waiting on me. Poor guy has to tolerate his mother and her pathetic snowboarding skills. Not to mention, I was exhausted! I seriously could hardly push the gas pedal in my car on the way home!

Needless to say, Dax and Andy are at the mountain today while Hays is training.

Maggie and Tiki and Gabby and I are home cleaning like crazy! We are in the middle of what looks like will be about fourteen loads of laundry. So far we have five bags full of trash and nine bags full of "give aways" and that is just from the playroom and the girls' room. (I don't have the courage to conquer the boys room yet.)

Speaking of courage, my big job for the day (as if fourteen loads of laundry isn't daunting enough) will be to vacuum. I hate to vacuum! And this house has one of those built in ones where you lug this huge hose all over with you. I still can not figure out why that is better. I hate it! So, as soon as I finish blog-procrastinating, I will be moving furniture and hauling around miles of vacuum hose. Yipee!

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Unknown said…
Jamie,

I will come vacuum for you. I love it!
February 13, 2011 at 9:44 PM
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