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Friends in Durango

Well, I had my first day out with a new friend today and it was fun! Jan moved from Oklahoma to Durango almost two years ago. She and her husband, Andrew, have two daughters: Olivia (almost 3) and Harper (7 months). We got to play at the park with the kids and just talk. I had a super time and I am looking forward to many more "play dates" in the future! Thanks, Jan!!!

I also got a call from another friend, Carrie, to go to lunch tomorrow. God is so good! Last night I had a HUGE moving and transition emotional collapse and today God blessed me with a day with a friend and a call from another Colorado friend for plans! He knows what I need!

And to my sister-in-law, Jennafer: please sell my stuff on Craig's list!!! All of my bedroom furniture, my coffee table in the living room, the elliptical, Andy's roll top desk, the crib and changing table, the two rugs and I think that is all for now! I'll get with you about prices!!! Thanks so much!!!! I have found new stuff that I am excited to replace with! Love you!


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First, I'm sorry that you had a difficult night. Second, I am SO thankful that you are meeting new friends and connecting so quickly! I have been praying that this would happen and will continue to do so. Have a great time at lunch today w/ Carrie.

Jan and Carrie, our loss is your gain. Enjoy Jamie, she's amazing!

We are excited for you, BUT miss you. Can't wait to see you in June! :)

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